You say Tomatoe, I say Fuck you!!

Posted: 11/04/2010 in Blogging, Relationships
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Stepping up to the podium…

I honestly don’t know where to begin in this post. I want to just tell you all to just stop the idiot behavior, shake you, and some, I even want to punch in the throat. Come on people, wake up. The haunting of disgust unravels in my head within a downward spiral when its brought to my attention of purely disgusting behavior online. Yes, online.

You that hide behind your computer screen and act bad ass and take out on the world, or individual people, the backlash that you receive everyday in your own lives. Do you really think that coming home after getting beat up mentally and emotionally from your job or whatever you do, and making people’s lives miserable online makes you a bad ass? Think again. It shows the real you. It shows how un-bad-ass you really are. Some of you, I want to hunt down and dare you to speak to me that way in person. I may be little, but my tongue can/will rip you down one side and down the other and I will make you bleed. Why? Because I am not afraid of the morons who think they can bully other people. Who cause people to cry or unravel because of your appalling ways. People know that I will always come to their defense and that I will even intervene where it isn’t my business because I can’t deal with you assholes who think your better than anyone.

My god, we are a community. We are a family. I am ashamed of you that use the online medium to attack others. I spit you out and grind you into the dirt with every other low life out there. Do you think you are any better than a murderer, rapist, someone who commits assault and battery? In my eyes, and in many others, you are just alike. The sin may be different, but the cause and effect are the same. You judge and act all high and mighty but you are a coward, because a real man or woman, is silent. They let things roll off their back because, YOU ARE NOTHING!

You post your tweets of hatred, trying to get a high-five and make people think you are the one to come running to when they need help, but in the end, when they need your help, you run like a fucking sissy because you don’t know your ass from your elbow about life or relationships.

Calming down…

In my humble opinion, if you use twitter, a blog, facebook, etc to bash someone, you are a despicable, pathetic fool, and again, shame on you.

If you’re so enthralled in saving face, and protect yourself, your family, your wife, your husband, etc..why don’t you do just that?? You wonder why half of you don’t have a decent relationship or are miserable in one, because you spend a quality of time online bashing others. Pay attention to whats in front of you instead of your past. You bitching about everyone in your past really just shows that you were really the problem. It makes me laugh when people bitch, whine, and complain about this one and that one, my ex, my ex husband, etc…if you have that many complaints, it really just shows what an asshole you really are/were. Not them. Trust me, you expose yourself to the light every time you do it.

Calling someone fat when you are a heavy weight non-champion yourself, really, does that make you feel bad ass? Look in the mirror. Come on…go look.

Calling people’s work or families and be malicious, causing one to lose their job or cause families to fight…really, you are a disgusting piece of shit. Shame shame shame on YOU.

We have it hard enough out there as it is. Don’t you agree?

Aren’t you miserable in the indulgence of your own self-hatred? Do you ever stop to wonder why it is that you have no friends in “real’ life? Do you ever wonder why you get so easily offended when “real” life people say something to you that you may be ignorant to or feel like they made fun of you in some way?

If you answered yes to any of those, it most likely means, wake up…grow up…and step away from the computer and get a life.

To those of you that swing around marriage as if its like a day at Disney World, really? Your going to say something about others just looking to get their MR. or MRS degree? You, that married, weeks after you met you wife or husband..isn’t that what YOU did??? I’m curious…tell me. I can take it.

I am sure some of you will read this and think its all about you and make it about you…well, if you do, most likely it’s FOR you.

I am 44 going on 45 very soon, and I am so thankful I am grown up and don’t use online to attack anyone. I may stand up and speak my mind, but tell me one time, I used blogs or a tweet to abuse someone? You won’t find one. What you will find, is me coming to the rescue of others because I am not afraid of you…let me repeat, I am not afraid of you. I have reported many people for cyber bullying, including some just today. Oh and make no mistake…I don’t report to the online outlet some may use…no I go right to the authorities.

On a side note, duct tape, twist ties and print screen are some of the most wonderful inventions made for us.

Ok…I am done
For now…

Comments
  1. Francesca says:

    I understand your rage… and I’m sorry if you’ve been the victim of this crap. The people ARE low, and the problem really lies somewhere with each and every one of THEM, not you. So yes, keep your head up and keep writing and being you. It’s easier said than done to not let what people say bother you, because sometimes you just can’t help letting it bother you in some way. But take it in stride, realize it doesn’t REALLY matter what other people say or think, and keep going. And yes, there are lots and lots of scum bags out there who seem to just LOVE hurting people and ruining lives, and it makes the entire scheme worse because WAY too many times these people are too coward to say it to someone’s face. Instead, they use the Internet in some way. I see that all the time, and like I said, I DEFINITELY can relate to your frustration and rage. But people suck sometimes, actually, LOTS of times. That’s life. Just do you.

  2. Grumps says:

    Hey – I couldn’t have said it better myself; I keep meaning to do my own blog about this very topic but feel that you said it all and said it very well. I don’t understand bullying in any form, especially online and even more especially, within our own community. There aren’t many of us compared to other groups, we are still a minority so why the fuck don’t we pull together and act like the community we should be. No bickering, no bullying, no abuse.

  3. Amen. Glad the world has not bent everyone to its ways.

  4. Hello!, Very interest angle, we were talking about the same thing at work and found your site very stimulating. So felt compelled to com?ment a little thank you for all your effort. Please keep up the great work your doing!

  5. Amen. Hallelujah.

    Funny story… was having flame war via email from someone local to me that’s on a list I’m on who did something shady and she had SOOO much shit to say to me via email.

    My last email to her was, “enough of this nonsense… be a real woman and try and say this shit to my face, my address is: _____________”.

    Last I ever heard of her. Funny how that happens…

    And how is it that I’ve never been to your blog??? LOL — hi!! 🙂

  6. Amy says:

    This should be posted everywhere for everyone to see Lee!
    You are a champion for so many!

    I applaud you! *clapping clapping clapping*

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